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Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Kempen Hijau Tipswanita

Kempen Hijau Tipswanita

Tahukah anda, pencemaran udara menyebabkan cuaca dunia semakin panas dan berubah secara mendadak. Perubahan yang drastik dalam cuaca dunia disebabkan oleh pencemaran yang pelbagai di udara sama ada dari pembakaran minyak untuk kenderaan atau daripada industri seperti pembakaran hutan dan kilang-kilang. Keadaan dan perubahan mendadak ini dipanggil kesan rumah hijau.

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http://asia.groups.yahoo.com/group/tipswanita

atau hantarkan email kepada [email protected]

Perubahan yang mendadak daripada segi suhu dunia dan perubahan mendadak cuaca mengancam alam kehidupan seperti tumbuh-tumbuhan dan haiwan. Pengurangan kawasan hutan lagi meningkatkan kadar perubahan cuaca dan berterusanlah perubahan ini. Lambat laun dunia menjadi gersang dan tiada apa boleh hidup diatasnya.

Hutan dunia umpama paru-paru yang membersihkan udara dan tiada cara lain untuk membersihkan udara melainkan melalui tumbuh-tumbuhan dan hutan yang luas.

Kehilangan kawasan hutan bukan setakat mengubahkan cuaca dunia malah mengurangkan peluang bagi kita, manusia, mencari pelbagai penyelesaian perubatan dan banyak perkara boleh kita belajar daripada alam. Satu hari nanti ubat kepada kanser dan ubat untuk menentang virus boleh dijumpai dalam tumbuh-tumbuhan. Haiwan turut mengajar manusia bagaimana menyelesaikan pelbagai masalah pembinaan dan banyak alatan berdasarkan pemerhatian kepada alam.

Setiap langkah-langkah yang diutarakan dalam artikel ini mampu menghijaukan semula dunia. Walaupun tindakan ini kecil bagi seorang individu namun apabila ramai melakukannya, ia akan menghasilkan kesan yang berpanjangan.

Perkara yang paling penting dalam proses membaiki semula dunia adalah dengan berjimat. Berjimat daripada semua segi. Pembaziran sebenarnya yang menyebabkan pencemaran yang melampau yang seterusnya mengancam dunia kita.

- Kurangkan penggunaan sumber tenaga seperti minyak dan elektrik. Tutup lampu dan perkakasan yang tidak digunakan.
- Kurangkan pembaziran air. Air bersih semakin berkurangan dan air bersih menjadi semakin mahal untuk diproses akibat pencemaran sungai.
- Kurangkan pengambilan makanan agar tidak berlebihan dan Masaklah sendiri di rumah. Kebanyakan daripada kita adalah dalam kategori gemuk dan mempunyai berat badan yang tidak sihat.

Kempen Makan Nasi Separuh
http://blog.perempuanmelayu.info/2008/04/kempen-makan-nasi-separuh.html

Penjimatan diatas turut menguntungkan kepada anda kerana ia turut melibatkan penjimatan kewangan.

Kitar semula sampah rumah anda. Asingkan kertas, bahan logam dan plastik dan masukkan dalam tong-tong khas yang telah disediakan. Malah anda boleh mendapatkan wang dengan menjual barangan terpakai kepada kedai kitar semula.

Nokia, sebuah syarikat pengeluar telepon bimbit turut mengadakan kempen kitar semua telepon bimbit. Sekiranya 3 billion pengguna telepon bimbit kitar semula sekurangnya sebuah telepon bimbit, ia dapat mengitarkan semula sekitar 240,000 ton bahan-bahan asal pembuatan. Bersamaan menghentikan pelepasan karbon dioksida oleh 4 juta kereta. Karbon dioksida adalah salah satu gas penyebab kesan rumah hijau.

Telepon bimbit anda mengandungi aluminium, perak, emas dan bahan logam lain yang boleh ditukarkan semula kepada alatan elektrik lain, barang kemas, penanda jalan plastik dan pelbagai. Semua bahagian ada gunanya.

Kitar semula telepon bimbit dapat mengurangkan pencemaran alam. Bahan-bahan toksin daripada bateri telepon merbahaya kepada alam. Kitar semula akan memastikan bahan-bahan merbahaya diasingkan dan dibuang dengan selamat.

Nokia telah menyediakan kemudahan kiosk yang membolehkan telepon terpakai dipulangkan. Maklumat lanjut boleh dilihat di

http://www.nokia.com.my/

Berjimat dan kitar semula. Langkah kecil anda sekarang membantu memperlahankan kesan rumah hijau kepada bumi.

Sampaikan email ini kepada rakan-rakan yang lain. Ia juga usaha untuk menyedarkan orang ramai bahawa bumi tempat kita tinggal ini semakin kritikal.

Persediaan Untuk Wanita Yang Ingin Mengandung
http://keluarga.noorjannah.com/2008/10/persediaan-untuk-wanita-yang-ingin.html

Bacaan Untuk Pasangan Suami Isteri Yang Baru Mendirikan Rumah Tangga
http://www.tipswanita.com/Family/Bacaan_Untuk_Pasangan_Suami_Isteri_Yang_Baru_Mendirikan_Rumah_Tangga/


Himpunan Kata-kata Hikmah Kasih Sayang Dan Cinta
http://untukwanita.noorjannah.com/2008/09/renungan-himpunan-kata-kata-hikmah.html

Ketahui Kulit Muka Anda
http://untukwanita.noorjannah.com/2008/10/ketahui-kulit-muka-anda.html

Menulis Untuk Menjadi Kaya
http://cybermoney2u.blogspot.com/2008/07/menulis-untuk-jadi-kaya-2.html

Tapisan Web Untuk anak-anak
http://safesurf.perempuanmelayu.info/

Laman penulis http://blog.perempuanmelayu.info/

Bagi kemas kini terbaru anda dijemput untuk sertai senarai terhad email di

http://asia.groups.yahoo.com/group/tipswanita

atau hantarkan email kepada [email protected]

Pelbagai artikel, tips dan nasihat di

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Wassalam.

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29 Nov 2008

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Thursday, November 27, 2008

The Use of Herbs For Sex

Herbs and plants are undervalued today. Not a lot of people understand their powerful effects on our health. Herbs can impact all parts of our health and that includes our sexual health. Unlike commonly used drugs like Viagra, natural herbs have little side effects and are just as efficient, if not better. Therefore, it is time to switch from drugs to health foods that are more natural. Here are some that can help boost sexual health.

Ginseng. It is a great herb recognized by doctors and is a valued component of traditional Chinese medicine. Ginseng boosts energy and can be taken in to boost health generally. Ginseng can boost sexual stamina and increase the potency of sperms. Ginseng may come in its original form or other forms, such as powdered, in many health food stores. However, any patient of high-blood pressure, heart diseases or asthma should consult a doctor before consumption.

Ginger is a common spice used in food, especially Chinese food. It is also used as an aphrodisiac. It is a good stimulant because it increases blood flow to the genitals. Blood circulation is important for sex and therefore anything that can improve blood circulation is good as an aphrodisiac. Ginger can be consumed by users of both gender and effects will be felt by both. Ginger can be taken in as food, as soup or as a form of tea. Extracts and pill forms are also sold at health food stores, for those who do not like the taste of ginger.

Licorice is also a great energy booster. Regular consumptions help for an active sex life. Men who use them regularly have an obvious increase in sex drive. For women, it stimulates her sex glands. Licorice is also a general health tonic and can be bought in the form of extracts in most health food stores. However, licorice may spell problems to patients of high blood pressure. They should consult a doctor before consuming licorice.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Goda Suami Anda Malam Ini 18SX

Goda Suami Anda Malam Ini 18SX

Catatan untuk isteri.

Apa kata malam ini anda goda suami anda? Jika tidak malam ini, pilihlah hari-hari subur kerana pada waktu itu bau badan (yang tidak dapat dikesan dengan nyata) akan lagi memberahikan suami anda. Yang pastinya anda akan capi orgasm paling memuaskan pada hari subur.

Mengetahui Hari Subur Wanita
http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2008/08/mengetahui-hari-subur-wanita.html

Ditambah pula dengan haruman dan mandian wangi. Pakailah pakaian yang seksi dan menjolokkan mata. Dia mungkin sepanjang hari diluar melihat wanita lain dengan pakaian yang menjolokkan mata. Apakata anda "reset" fikiran suami dan berikan suami anda melihat seksi isterinya pula.

http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2008/11/turn-your-partner-on-with-sexy-lingerie.html

Tambahkan lagi berahi suami dengan pakaian lingerie warna merah. Satu kajian mendapati wanita dengan pakaian warna merah adalah lebih menarik daripada segi seksual.

http://www.tipswanita.com/Woman/Woman_wearing_red_clothing_rated_more_sexually_attractive/

Sediakan makanan yang menyihatkan, yang tidak pedas dan pastikan jangan terlalu kenyang. baiknya isteri telepon suami bertanya apa makanan yang hendak dimakan sambil memberikan kata-kata bahawa anda pun hendak makan. :)

Tidak perlu risau. Hubungan seks juga adalah senaman

http://www.tipswanita.com/Health/Sexercise_yourself_into_shape/

Isteri perlu bersedia untuk menerima pancutan air mani didalam farajnya tanpa apa-apa halangan. Kepuasannya adalah cukup menyakinkan sehinggakan anda mahu lagi.

http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2007/08/pancutkan-mani-dalam-faraj-perempuan.html

Lagi bacaan hebat di

Bacaan Untuk Pasangan Suami Isteri Yang Baru Mendirikan Rumah Tangga
http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/2008/10/bacaan-untuk-pasangan-suami-isteri-yang.html

http://tamanwangi.perempuanmelayu.info/

Sertai senarai email dengan hantarkan email kepada

[email protected]

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Some Information About STD

There is a wide variety of sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections that can put us in danger and we intend to use this standard guide to tell you a little more about them. In addition, we will also provide advice on how to protect yourself from them, as well as advice on treatment.

Sexually transmitted diseases or STIs are taken by many types of sexual contact, which includes anal sex, relationships oral and vaginal intercourse. The only way to be 100 percent safe from sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections is to refrain from such activities altogether. However, if you are sexually active, you can help protect your sexual health by being ordinary STDs and STD testing, especially if you change your sexual partner. In addition, condoms are also essential.

There are many different sexually transmitted diseases and sexually transmitted infections, which we have written on one of two main below. If you need further advice, please feel free to contact a doctor or nurse sexual health.

Do not use this guide to sexual health instead visit your doctor or clinic for sexual health. If you have concerns about any bit of your sexual health, please make sure you go to one of these places immediately.

The herpes is a sexually transmitted infection that most people suffering from May not know they have. However, even if the person they do not show symptoms, they are still capable of transmitting the infection to others. An attack of herpes can vary from a slight pain in painful blisters on the genitals of men and women who are suffering. The first attack symptoms may last 2 to 3 weeks attacks and other symptoms can also occur from time to time. Unfortunately, herpes can not be cured, but there are several treatments that will relieve the symptoms.

Syphilis is a very serious sexually transmitted infection, which is caused by a bacterium known as Treponema pallidum. Syphilis is usually transmitted during sexual intercourse. However, it can also be transmitted by skin contact with someone who had syphilis, wounds or syphilis, a rash or a blood transfusion. The symptoms are similar among women and men, but they can be difficult to recognize. Without treatment, syphilis can cause serious long-term damage and death in certain cases.

What if you have an STD or IST

If you think you have an STD or STIs, there are many sexual health clinics that you be able to offer tests and offer treatment. To find out where your clinic is the closest contact your health authority nearest who will gladly help you. Otherwise, you can go to your doctor who will also be able to help you. Do not be nervous about the nature of your problem - Dr. often see sexual health issues.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Lose Weight and Stay Healthy

There are so many expensive weight loss plans out there, in our endeavour to find one that works fast, we often sacrifice our health. It is time to find the plan that works right and keeps working so that we don't experience the yo-yo diet effect.

In this day and age of fast food, super information at our fingertips and media overload, we have become a society of instant gratification seekers. Nobody has the time or patience any more to "wait and see", we want our results now. The only problem with that is we often have to do things over and over, and end up paying twice as much.

When it comes to our health and diet, most people like to have it done for them, need to lose weight? Just take a pill or order food and have it delivered. The only problem here is that when you stop paying for it, and the program is over, the weight comes back.

If we would just take the time to learn the proper way to lose the weight, change our way of thinking, and change the way we buy and prepare food altogether, the weight will stay off.

Lose the excess weight and keep it off.

That extra weight on your body didn't get there overnight, so you shouldn't expect it to disappear overnight either. If you want your body to remain healthy, then proper weight loss should be ongoing and slow enough for your body's system's to get use to it.

You need to change the way you think.

Old habits die hard, it takes courage to break free from those old patterns and move forward. However, it is important to do so in order to make permanent changes.

Do some research

Every single day, folks like me and you are working toward changing their lives. Some will succeed because they are focused and have the drive and determination to do so. Many of them are willing to share their success stories as well as the "how" of it. There are many different ways, some will suit your needs and lifestyle, some will not - this is something you will need to determine as you go.

I have tried to make it easier.

I have compiled a list of resources for you to browse at your convenience, these are people who have had the success that you seek and have documented their formula for you to use. There are many in the list because we are all unique individuals who have different body types and requirements.

Stay motivated!

There will very likely be some setbacks, but these are only small bumps in the road to success. Don't let obstacles bar your way, just keep going and use them as lessons, they will make you stronger and wiser. When you look at the big picture, they are just tiny blips that are barely visible on the whole radar screen.

The time is now, you know you need to change and you want to be healthy and happy for the rest of your life, so don't keep putting it off...make that move break that old way of thinking that has kept you from who you want to be. Just go for it.

Sunday, September 07, 2008

Perfume Garden Taman Wangi Blog

Perfume Garden Blog

Perfume Garden Blog want to provided you as a married couple with information, articles and tips related to family planning, sexual relationships, sexual dysfunction and life around sexual relationship for husband and wife. We will compiled articles and advices that may interest to you and your family and couple sexual relationship.

It's also contain tips for dating Men and women and dating sexual relationship.

It can be facts on birth control methods, emergency contraception and related reproductive health for women, men and teens and information on family planning.

This information included old writing from tajul muluk, taman wangi, kama sutra and perfume garden. Articles, tips and writing may be in English and Malay.

Wanita Perempuan Melayu Dot Info Domain is part of the project to attract computer and Internet users from Malaysia to contributed in many ways specially through blogging. Wanita Perempuan Melayu Dot Info would like to see more information, tips and articles come from Malaysia for the Internet world.

This blog contain writeup or cerita dewasa that may not suitable to children under 18 years old. Cerita dewasa is words from Malay and Indonesia that mean adult stories. This blog is for "orang dewasa".


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Friday, September 05, 2008

Bless Ramadhan

Fasting has many health benefits, that have been confirmed over the centuries by both Muslim and non-Muslim scientists:

Fasting is an effective detoxification therapy. it allows the body to work on removing the toxins and other impurities, which developed during the whole year and from the unhealthy eating habits.

Fasting helps reduce weight and burns deposited fat.

Fasting also normalizes the digestive system.

Fasting can also clear many skin problems. This is because of the elimination of toxic materials from the body and generally cleansing the blood.

Fasting has advantages in getting rid of addictions and unhealthy habits like smoking, caffeine and alcohol.

If you do Ramadan right, you will gain all these health benefits, and you will improve your over all health.

It is a sad fact that many Muslims consume more food is in Ramadan than all the other months, which ruins every health benefit gained from fasting. Consuming excess food at Iftar or Suhoor will create many health problems, and most importantly, this lifestyle contradicts the essential requirements for fasting and the spirit of Ramadan.


SUHOOR

Suhoor is a very important meal during Ramadan, it is important to choose the kind of food that will give our bodies the necessary nutrients to get through the day. Make it a light Suhoor and have small amount of the following food:

  • Green salad with extra virgin olive oil.
  • Raw Almonds for energy.
  • Goat cheese, goat milk or goat yogurt.
  • Humus and Beans.
  • Whole Grains bread.
  • Fresh Fruits juice,
  • Green juice.
  • Drink lots of Water.

IFTAR

Dates, It is Sunna of Prophet Muhammad, PBUH to break your fast on 3 Dates, I will share some of the health benefits of dates soon inshaa Allah. Drink Water, and it even better if you add sea salt and lemon to your water. Fresh Fruits Juice, it is a great sources of energy and natural sugars.Homemade Vegetable/Green Soup, green soup help maintain water and mineral balance in your body.



DINNER

Your dinner should be well-balanced to maintain good health, sustain an active lifestyle and attain the full benefits of Ramadan. Your dinner should contain food from each food group, Fruits, Raw Vegetables, Quality meat, Fish, Good Fat and Good Carbohydrates.

70% of your meal should be Raw Vegetables and Fruits, which is water rich food, it have more nutrition, more minerals and vitamins.

Vegetables: tomatoes, carrots, beets avocados, red peppers, cucumber, green paper, english cucumber, green onion, celery, lettuce, parsley, broccoli.

Leafy greens: kale, chard, swiss chard, spinach, collard green, mix green, and all dark green vegetables.

Vegetables sprouts, they are 10 to 30 times more nutritious than all vegetables: clover, wheat grass, sunflower greens, Mung Bean sprouts, Sunflower sprouts.

Whole Fruits: Apples, berries, oranges, bananas, grapes...


10% Protein: Quality meat or fish.

Buy meat from good and local source, shop for meats that are guaranteed to be from grain-fed, free-range animals which have not been given antibiotics or hormones. You may pay a little more for it, but trust me, you will save money in the long run with fewer trips to doctors.

Lamb, Goat meat, Salmon, Tuna and all see food are better choices, but don't buy Farm raised see food.

Beans are also a good source of protein, minerals, vitamins, and good source of dietary fiber, as well.

10% Good Fats and Oils:

Omega 3 fatty acid, you can find it in almonds, walnuts, flex seeds, soy beans, salmon, tuna, olive oil, flax seed oil and fish oil.

10% Good Carbohydrates:

Carbohydrates are good source of energy, Whole Grains breads and pasta, Potatoes, nuts, seeds, beans.

Eating healthy is very easy and simple, you just need to practice it, and Ramadan is the best time to to that.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

What Can Women Do To Gain Weight

Some women are underweight. If they want to reach their ideal weight, they will have to work hard in the coming days and months as this will not become a reality overnight.

For that, there are two things that the woman has to do. The first is to eat right while the other if they have not tried it yet is exercise.

When we say eat right, we don't mean sitting on a couch and eating junk food the whole day. It means that we have to practice good nutrition. This is achieved by getting the right amounts of fat, carbohydrates and proteins.

A good source of healthy fat comes what is known as omega 3 fatty acids. They are very special because it cannot be produced by the body. You can get this from eating fish and other marine life such as algae and krill. It can also be ingested by consuming certain plants like purslane and walnuts.

You can get protein from lean meat, poultry products, legumes and seeds. This is also important because it builds and repair tissues that are torn down from a workout. They also produce enzymes, hormones and other body chemicals.

Good nutrition should also have carbohydrates. This is the fuel that gives us energy to do our daily activities. So, if you want to remain active, you have to get a sufficient amount that can be found in fruits, vegetables and whole grains.

You can also get these three from food supplements that are available in the form of pills or drinks. This can be purchased over the counter as you don't need a medical prescription.

Eating is just one thing women have to do to gain weight. The other is to exercise. Although working out increases your metabolism, it can also make you want to eat more afterwards. It can also change your body structure as you will soon develop muscles.

Women can gain weight by engaging in exercises such as aerobics, cycling, jogging, running and walking. Some may do weight lifting but not too much to make you look like a man. You can work 3 to 4 times a week for about an hour or two each day and don't forget to bring water or any energy drink to replenish what you sweat.

If you have never exercised before, start with something easy before increasing the tempo. A physical trainer can help out since they have the authority on this matter. But before you do anything, don't forget to get check if this is safe to do from your doctor.

Once you are able to reach your ideal weight, the only thing you have to do now is maintain it. This means sticking to the diet plan you have been using for the past how many months and adding a little variety every now and then as well as making some changes in the exercises that you do either at home or at the gym.

Some say it is easy to gain weight rather than lose it and women are no exception. For those who don't want to be underweight anymore you just have to you eat and exercise because there is no short cut to looking and feeling good.

This can only be achieved with sweat and hard work that is difficult but not impossible regardless of your age

Author: Paul Hata
Source : http://www.articlesbase.com

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Stimulating Women Erogenous Zones

Both men and women have erogenous zones . This is a fact that has been around since there were females and males in the world. The discovery of these erogenous zones was part of several cultures and civilizations that found these facts useful.

Women's erogenous zones may be different from that of males. Not all women have the same erogenous spots although many women's erogenous zones are in the same vicinity. In spite of these erogenous zones, a woman also needs to find her partner attractive enough to be able to feel some pleasure.


The Head

The head can contain several women's erogenous zones . The ears are considered one of a woman's erogenous zones. To discover which part of the ears can really stimulate her, you can start by gently exploring the ear.

The key to stimulating women's erogenous zones is to handle them gently and lightly. Sometimes the anticipation of what you are about to do with her ear can be stimulating enough for her. Kissing the parts of her ear lightly can send ecstatic shivers up her spine as well as awaken her sexual senses. Gently blowing on the ear as well as behind it can also stimulate a woman.

Another of a woman's erogenous zones is her lips. The lips are filled with small nerve endings that make it more sensitive than any other part of the face. These are also used to express love and emotions through kissing. The same as the ear, the lightest touch on her lips can stimulate her more than a firm hand. Kissing women's erogenous zones , specifically the lips can also stimulate her.


The Neck

The entire neck is quite sensitive to touch, so it is understandable that it is among women's erogenous zones , most particularly the sides of the neck just below the ear. These women's erogenous zones are best stimulated by kissing and stroking and blowing. The arching of the neck, while kissing and blowing on this area, signals a desire to be stimulated more in that area.


The Breasts

These women's erogenous zones abound in sensitive nerve endings that can easily arouse a woman. The nipples are the most sensitive part of these erogenous zones.

Kissing, blowing and sucking on them can really awaken a woman's sexual urges. Fondling the breasts is a stimulant which most women experience.

These are just a few of a woman's erogenous zones that are located nowhere near her lower body. The lower has more erogenous zones that you can discover as well.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Tips on How to Spice up Your Relationship in Bed

Partners need to be compatible in almost everything they do to make their relationship work. It is always a matter of giving and receiving – especially in bed. Married couples tend to lose the spice in their relationship after several years of being together. More so, their sexual relations are getting cold by the minute.

Revive the old fire that used to make your blood tingle down your spine. How long was the last time you really made love like a sixteen-year-old virgin? Wouldn't it be nice to experience the same ecstasy with the same person over and over again, even after decades of being together?

Here are good suggestions on how you can make your love bed sizzle like wild fire even in the winter nights:

1. Fantasize There's nothing wrong in playing make believe. Bring your fantasies into life with your partner. Go out of the routine and start making love to your partner like you never did before. Try making love in other places like the floor, the oak table, or at the pool. Do you have a role that you would like to play? Explore all the possibilities. Act as if you're somebody from some other time and place. Let your imagination be your guide.

2. Experiment How many sex toys have you tried? How many times did you share one with your partner? There's no harm in trying something new. Doing so would definitely bring excitement back into your sex life. Whenever you see new sex toys on sale at the online store, show it to your partner and see how he or she reacts. A hot reaction means it's a go.

3. Plan When you two have sex, do you plan it or does it just happen? Try to plan your next session in bed. Talk to your partner and suggest a sex date. Determine the time, date, and place you'll make love together. Further details about the date can be discussed accordingly. Or you can just skip all those fine points altogether to have room for spontaneity. Then surprise your partner with new moves and exciting positions.

4. Love Sex is an expression of love more than anything. Look at your partner in the same way you that looked at him ten or twenty years before. Remember all the things that made you love him in the first place. Let those be your inspiration each night you make passionate love. Only then would your relationship in bed be better, more fervent, and worth remembering for the rest of your life.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Women, Hormones, Mood Swings, And Antidepressants

It is a little known fact that women are more likely to experience depression than men. Two or three times more likely, according to some scientific data. This stems down to basic biology and the various differences between male and female physiologies, and not that women are supposedly considered as the weaker sex. Things like the levels of estrogen in the bloodstream and serotonin in the brain are among the factors that cause women to be more likely to need prescription antidepressants than men. It isn't just depression that women are found to be more susceptible to, however. A specific form of depression, known as seasonal affective disorder (SAD), is also known to be more prevalent among women than men.

According to some studies, men and women put under the same level of stress will experience and deal with that stress differently. Women are found to be more likely to develop a need for prescription antidepressants and the like, due to their increased probability of developing a more emotional response. Men, on the other hand, often turned to aggression and abuse of various substances, with tobacco and alcohol being the most common. Science now believes that this difference stems from higher levels of certain biochemicals in the body. These chemicals, which may include the female hormone estrogen, are at the root of the more "emotionally attuned" response to stress and pressure. This, combined with the fact that female hormone levels are in near-constant flux throughout their lives, makes them more prone to develop mental disorders that deal with emotions and emotional responses.

It is interesting to note that some health experts believe that the nature of female hormone levels makes women more prone to some forms of depression than men. The female physiology and hormone levels make them prone to a number of psychological conditions that can be treated by prescription antidepressants. These episodes are most often connected to the levels of estrogen in the female body. Unfortunately, the estrogen levels are often at their highest (or in their greatest state of flux) during times when others expect odd behavior from women and girls. As such, these brief episodes of depression are ignored as being part of "that time of the month." On some occasions, these episodes may last longer than normal, but most people will just pass it off as being part of being female, rather than consult with an expert.

Premenstrual syndrome, which has been a problem of women for years, is also sometimes linked with depression. Most women do not realize that this syndrome can be treated, along with the depressive episodes it has been known to cause on occasion. Prescription antidepressants can help alleviate this problem, as well as help a woman deal with the temporary effects of postpartum depression. It should be noted that women who suffer from postpartum depression once are more susceptible to experience it again in the event they have another child. Menopause is also a major concern. Most modern women live nearly a third of their lives after the menopausal period, but the suicide rate for women is highest before menopause sets in. Prescription antidepressants and the right therapy could help lower those numbers.


Author : Harvey Ong
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Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Great Foreplay Tips to Supercharging Your Orgasm

A lot of people think that Tantra is just about sex - that's not true. Tantra is about developing an appreciation of life in general; it's about learning to maximize your pleasure in all things simultaneously. The goal of Tantra is open your mind and allow you to clearly understand that you are an integral part of the universe. Tantra uses the prolonging of sexual ecstasy as one vehicle to help you mesh with what is eternal - the source of all energy and life.

When you open your mind in such a manner, that is one form of meditation. As one result of developing a meditative mind, you are capacitated to enjoy your lovemaking, and everything else, on a far more profound level. Tantra is about connecting your mind with your body - and the body of your partner - to ensure your total focused attention on one another. That is the key! That is what makes Tantric sexuality so mind-blowing and powerful.

In Tantra, the orgasmic response to making love is the epitome of your focused concentration on pleasure. The Tantric orgasm is a combination of the physical orgasm that we commonly think of and a more intense "heart orgasm". Tantra encourages us to live from the heart 24/7 - every minute of life. When we are centered in our hearts, we are in a constant state of blissful union with every bit of energy - both mental and physical - on the planet. The Tantric way is one where we are meshed with everything and everyone around us. To live in this state of mind is truly ecstatic - truly beautiful.

Sexologists (yes, there are such people) have defined several types of orgasms. There are clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms for women. There are glans orgasms for men. Tantra introduces us to a few other types of orgasms as well. There are energy orgasms and heart orgasms. In Tantra, individuals learn to prolong and blend all types of differing orgasms and create what is called a total body orgasm. Wow! That's sounds fun, huh?

The premise is that, through repetitive practice and increased abilities to focus, individuals are able to bring about these total body orgasms and have them last and last - for periods of time that seem unbelievable to non-Tantric people. What's more is that these total body orgasms do not even require physical touch for some people; they achieve this great pleasure plateau simply through breathing and the powers of their minds. Of course, the total body orgasm is indescribable. It is said to be spiritual to the point where the practitioner feels as though they are indeed touching God, ultimate reality, or whatever else the individual believes to be the creative and sustaining force in the universe. Pretty heavy.

Further, when an individual becomes capable of this degree of body/spirit control and mastery, they experience unparalleled personal growth on a variety of levels besides the sexual one. It is the breath that is the focus of all meditative practices in essence. It is no different with Tantra. Our breath is our most profound connection to life. When you learn to be unfailingly conscious of your breath and your heart's utmost desires, you become more than you dreamed that you could. You touch the source of all life.

That is the essence of the Tantric orgasm. That is why it is so sought after. Besides, what else there in life that is both immeasurably rewarding while simultaneously so entertaining to practice and develop? Tantric sexuality and the way of Tantra in general can make your life into one never-ending total body orgasm. Now that is quite a way to go!

Author : Maya Silverman
Source : http://www.articlesbase.com

Thursday, July 17, 2008

What Happens if the Condom Breaks?

If the condom breaks during sex, you have two things to worry about; pregnancy and contracting a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

If you’re concerned about falling pregnant, ask your pharmacist for an emergency contraceptive pill, also known as the ‘morning-after pill’. If you take it within 72 hours of unprotected sex, you’ll have a 95% to 99% chance of preventing a pregnancy.

If you’re concerned about STDs, visit your local clinic, hospital or doctor where you can be tested for anything you might be worried about.

Common Diseases to Look out for :-

Chlamydia

If left untreated, chlamydia can lead to pelvic inflammation and result in infertility. The signs? Look out for more vaginal discharge than usual, a frequent, often burning need to pee, stomach pain, irregular periods and pain or bleeding during sex.

Sometimes you can have chlamydia without showing any symptoms, so it’s important to ask your doctor for a test if you think you may be at risk.

Gonorrhoea

Also referred to as ‘the clap’, gonorrhoea can be symptomless too. You may, however, notice a yellowish discharge and it might sting a little when you pee.

Syphilis

It can take up to three months to appear. First, you’ll notice a painless sore at the site of the infection, which could be anywhere on your body, not just in the genital area. Later, you’ll develop some or all of the following; a rash that doesn’t itch, flat looking vaginal or anal warts, swollen glands, a loss of appetite, flu like symptoms, fatigue, a white, patchy mouth and tongue, and hair loss.

The really scary part is that, while all these symptoms can clear up by themselves, the disease can lie dormant in your system for decades before damaging vitals such as your nervous system and heart. The good news is the above symptoms are easy to treat with a prescribed course of antibiotics. If you suspect you’ve picked up a little more than his phone number, get to a doctor – fast.

Genital Herpes

Spread not only by oral sex but also by close skin to skin contact, genital herpes symptoms are easy to spot – one or more red bumps that develop into blisters and later become itchy, painful sores. They might heal and vanish without a trace, but the virus lurks in your system forever, playing up at will. Fortunately, your doctor can prescribe intiviral medication to treat your symptoms and help to keep future outbreaks in check.

Thursday, July 03, 2008

Means to End Premature Ejaculation

One of the most common problems for men is premature ejaculation. The question how to last longer in bed pops into everyone’s head. How can I please my woman, if I cannot last more than two minutes when I am with her, in bed?

The answer to that question may be found in various drugs. However, all of these pills have side effects, such as nausea and blurry vision. That is why, if you want to end premature ejaculation and you want to know how to last longer in bed, you should follow the next few tips:

The first tip consists in masturbation.
Be sure to blow your load an hour or two before every sexual encounter. This way, you will be able to delay ejaculation at first. Repeat this step as many times as you can, even if you are not sure of the outcome of your date. This way, you will build up stamina and, eventually, you will end premature ejaculation. Do not worry that you won’t be able to get it up when in bed with your partner – your Johnson will be ready for work.

The second and last tip on how to last longer in bed consists in playing with your partner.
The method described here is called the squeeze technique. It has some simple steps, which work not only as a mean to end premature ejaculation but as a fun game to play too.

The first step consists in foreplay. Play with your partner; touch you bodies in order to achieve erection. Do these until you feel the urge of blowing your load.

When feeling like coming, have your partner squeeze the tip of your penis, right where the head joins the shaft, for a few seconds. After the urge passes, you will se that your penis is not as hard as it used to be. This happens because the blood vessels were compressed. Resume the foreplay and you will feel it become harder than ever.

Have sex, great sex. You will see that you are now able to last longer then you used to. However, if you feel like coming again, repeat the procedure described above – it would be even more fun if she takes it in her mouth.

The last thing to do in order to know how to last longer in bed is that she may also put pressure on your perineum while squeezing the tip of your dick. The pleasure you will feel is indescribable.

Of course, you will not be able to end premature ejaculation from the first time. However, gradually, you will be able to last longer and harder in bed. This way, your problem of coming to fast will be solved. And, keep in mind the fact that there are no side effects and that is also fun to do.

You will soon be able to penetrate your partner from the first moment, without ejaculating. The squeeze technique will no more be of use for you. Afterwards, let your imagination flow. Sex will be as easy as it comes.

Author: Ken Wilson
Article Source : http://www.articlesbase.com

Monday, June 30, 2008

Lingerie Seksi Ghairah Suami Perlukah suami minta ?

Lingerie Seksi Ghairah Suami Perlukah suami minta ?

Tulisan daripada laman web Mrs Lingerie untuk dikongsikan bersama.

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Sebenarnya saya mendapat banyak mesej dari kaum yang satu lagi tu. Katanya mereka memang minat dan suka nak lihat isteri mereka berpakaian seksi-seksi ni. Apatah lagi dengan jenis-jenis lingerie yang boleh dikelaskan sebagai boleh mengugurkan jantung. Memang mereka suka, tetapi isteri seolah-olah tak faham atau buat-buat tak faham.

Ada yang kata dah bosan dengan cara penampilan isteri yang stereotype aje bila berada di bilik tidur. Sama aje. Kalau nak lihat isteri pakai lingerie seksi, suami kena minta. Itu sebabnya saya buat tajuk "Perlukah suami minta" pada isteri supaya pakai lingerie seksi ?

Perlu ingat ! berhias untuk suami adalah tanggungjawab isteri sepenuhnya. Berhias yang dimaksudkan disini bukan hanya bermakeup lawa, bedak,gincu, perfume sana sini. Memakai seksi juga dikelaskan sebagai berhias. Yang kita faham, berhias yang tu lah. Makeup,bedak, gincu, merah sana merah sini.

Ok Back to topic, "perlukah suami minta" kepada isteri supaya isteri pakai seksi dibilik tidur ?
Dengan tegas saya katakan "tidak". "Suami tak perlu minta", sebaliknya isteri memang perlu tahu. Memang fitrah lelaki, sukakan perempuan seksi. Kalau tak suka, itu bukan lelaki.

Jadi selepas ni, kita ubahlah sedikit fesyen kita semasa di bilik tidur, pelbagaikan,fesyen-fesyen kan. Sekali-sekala cubalah lingerie yang agak "nakal". Bukanlah saya suruh anda jadi nakal, cuma kita nak tambah "spice" dan sedikit kelainan dalam rumahtangga.

Tak perlulah tunggu suami minta. Anda sendiri yang pilih, apa yang sepatutnya anda pakai bila berada "bersamanya". Kalau anda sendiri yang beri, suami akan rasa dihargai, berbeza dengan apabila dia meminta, baru anda beri. Suami ada ego, dia bukan anak kecil yang suka meminta-minta.

Lebih baik anda beri sebelum dia "minta" dari orang lain.

Love

Mrs Lingerie

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

A Woman's Right to Larger Breasts

If you want to enhance your breasts without the costs and risks of surgery, you should know about natural breast enlargement options. There are plenty of horror stories about women w/ surgery gone wrong, breasts pointing in different directions. Natural Breast Enlargement is an all-natural breast augmentation supplement shown safe and effective in gradually enhancing the size and shape of your breasts. Surgery always involves risks, for example infection, bleeding, or implant failure.

Most women prefer the idea of natural breast enlargement pills as opposed to plastic surgery. Studies by groups of researches and scientists have also shown that natural breast enlargement supplements help to maintain female hormonal balance. Modern techniques of breast enhancement are carefully performed to minimize risks but cannot guarantee a perfect result every time. A common misconception about natural breast enhancement is that it will only take weeks or a few months to gain results such as 1-2 cup sizes. This quite simply, is not the case most often since most women who do see success in naturally increasing their breast size do not see considerable results for anywhere from 6-12 months. Also, it is important that the right product is chosen. Some women may respond to one product or method, while other women may not respond at all. Since everyone's body and chemical makeup is so diverse, it is nearly impossible to guarantee one single product will work the same on everyone.

Specific exercises can help tone the muscles around your breasts. Stronger muscles give your breasts better support which in turn gives them a firmer appearance. Press-ups are very good for this. Another great exercise is where you put your hands together as if you are going to pray, making sure your elbows are at 90? angles and you push hard for 10 seconds. Repeat 5 times.

Next time you are down the gym ask an instructor to recommend some exercises for you; and if you can't make the gym then look up 'breast-firming exercises' on Google. You can do these exercises at home - you don't need equipment. You could also do exercises that help improve posture. Standing tall and walking correctly will not only make you look slimmer, but will also make your breasts appear more pert as opposed to looking droopy when you are hunched over.

More information and reviews about breast enhancement can be found here. As well as free breast pills and samples from leading companies.

Author : Lewis Robert
Article Source: http://www.ArticleBiz.com

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Evolution of Sexes

An interesting unsolvable puzzle to the evolutionists to explain is the phenomena of parthenogenesis. The origin of the word are the Greek words "parthenos" (virgin) + "genesis" (generation) what all-together means reproduction of usually female gamete (egg) without pollination or fertilization.


Parthenogenesis

An interesting unsolvable puzzle to the evolutionists to explain is the phenomena of parthenogenesis. The origin of the word are the Greek words "parthenos" (virgin) + "genesis" (generation) what all-together means reproduction of usually female gamete (egg) without pollination or fertilization. Parthenogenesis mostly occurs in lower plants and according to statistics of all plants 80% display some form of asexual reproduction and approximately 50% are mainly or exclusively asexual. Amazingly the offspring is genetically or with other words in all inherited respects identical to the mother plant having e.g. egg with an unreduced chromosome number.

Now, the puzzle in all this is that how did evolution continued at all from this kind of plants if these species cannot reshuffle genes to produce subspecies variations? With other words, how evolution developed without meiosis or the absence of cell division that results in two daughter cells each with half the chromosome number of the parent cell. If this could not somehow happen that means that practically there was no possibility of development of sexes.

Actually, the discussion about how the first fully functional female and the first fully functional male developed to begin the process of reproduction, is not the favorite topic of discussion in the circle of the evolutionists. Graham Bell in his book, The Masterpiece of Nature: The Evolution of Genetics and Sexuality, describes the problem in the following way:

"Sex is the queen of problems in evolutionary biology. Perhaps no other natural phenomenon has aroused so much interest; certainly none has sowed as much confusion. The insights of Darwin and Mendel, which have illuminated so many mysteries, have so far failed to shed more than a dim and wavering light on the central mystery of sexuality, emphasizing its obscurity by its very isolation."

In this regard Dobzhansky and his colleagues made an interesting remark:

"With respect to the origin of sexual reproduction, two challenging questions present themselves. First, in what kinds of organisms did sex first arise? And second, what was the adaptive advantage that caused sexual reproduction to become predominant in higher organisms?"

Now in the following section of this essay we would like to describe briefly the how different evolutionary theories attempt to solve the above-mentioned problems but of course ultimately without any success.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

How To Reach A Stunning Climax

Reaching a stunning climax might seem natural for every sexual being but it does not happen all the time. Many women are frustrated and depressed over sexual dissatisfaction. Many climaxes are characterized by loud fake screams just to raise men's ego. Some do not even care to pretend since their partners do not care whether they enjoy sex or not. To reach a stunning climax as a woman you have to keep communicating with your lover. Tell them what you want done to you. You will have learnt about yourself through masturbation. Once you figure out what gives you stunning climaxes, do not hesitate share it out with your partner. You can trust that he badly wants to know especially if what turns you on is not even close to what he thinks works for you.

To reach a stunning climax, do not give "mercy fakes". This is a term used to refer to the act of faking orgasms. If you let your partner think that he is hitting it when he is falling short, you are being unfair to yourself. He won't do anything different since in his mind you are having great climaxes. This leaves you faking it for the rest of your life. How can you reach a stunning climax without spanking your partner's ego? Use your sexy voice and say it out in soft sultry directions. Say something like, "I go wild when you squeeze my breasts" or you can silently take his hand's fingers, manhood or tongue and take them for a a tour in your erogenous zones.

To reach a stunning climax do not be shy to give yourself a hand. It is a fact that only 30% of women reach climax through penetration. You are not abnormal so give yourself a hand as he penetrates through. Reach down for your clitoris and service it squarely. Do not let him hurry foreplay. Guys can go from zero arousal to orgasm in five minutes. Women take longer to get aroused the reason as to why foreplay was invented. Let your husband put the kids to bed as you refresh yourself with a shower. This will keep you in a position to respond better to foreplay. You might not be in the moods but touching the right button makes your skin glow with want.

Do you know why you should climax often especially when you are in pain? Here is the answer. Climaxes trigger production of endorphins. They are even better than ibuprofen since they make the brain to relax and feel good. They curb the pain using the most natural way and encourage good moods. They kill pain in headaches, menstrual cramps and much more. Hormones will not cause any stomach upsets and introduce any toxic substances to the liver. Exercise is in the core of every healthy life including sex life. Exercise helps in circulation of blood in all of your body organs including your sex organ. This helps you to reach a stunning climax. The better the flow of blood the better the feeling or the titillation. Remember to strengthen your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle it is the muscle behind powerful orgasms. To test their strength, stop the flow while urinating. The muscle that flexes is what needs to be exercised.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Ten Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex With A Man

Author : Rod Phillips

You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there's a lot less information - and opinion - on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here's our list of ten things for women to avoid.

Expecting him to think like a woman

We've all seen loads of books with titles like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don't think the same way - and while we're not going to get into why this happens, it's important to remember that fact when you're in a relationship. In general, men are not as romantic as women, they don't see romance as a necessary prelude to sex, and they can divorce sex from their feelings in a way that perhaps most women can't. So there will be plenty of times when a man wants sex even if he isn't feeling romantic and connected to his partner.

For him, the physical pleasure of sex is a reward in itself. He doesn't need to be seduced into feeling desire (though he may appreciate it if you do seduce him!), at least most of the time, for his sex drive is a pretty constant part of his maleness. I think that's what women don't understand.

They know how elusive and emotional their own sex drive is, but they don't appreciate how different it is for a man. Think of it this way: men can enjoy sex with their partner whether they are feeling loving or not; in fact they often find their feelings of love for their partner when they have sex with her. By contrast, women often say they need to feel loving before they want sex - or at least before they are prepared to give themselves heart and soul to a man.

Not showing your sexual energy

Women who were brought up to be demure "good girls" (i.e. non-sexual) may find it difficult to express the essence of their feminine energy during sex. And a lot of women also have problems expressing their anger, an emotion which can add real spice to the sexual union between men and women. This lack of sexual energy might appear as a reluctance to initiate sex, a reluctance to be the active partner, a reluctance to make noises or thrust, or simply an overall tendency to wait for the man to lead and direct what happens during sex.

But believe me, ladies, your man will really like it when you express your passion - whether that means you getting on top for woman on top sex, moving in a way that will give you the greatest pleasure, kissing him passionately, or being assertive about what you want in bed.

Being too gentle when you touch his penis

Men like a firmer touch than women, especially when it comes to their penises. If you ever have the pleasure of watching him masturbate, you'll see how much pressure he uses on his penis - especially as he nears orgasm. If you're doing it for him, ask him to tell you what you're doing right and what he'd like done differently. He'll really appreciate your efforts to give him more pleasure.

Not experimenting with sex

The saying has it that men think about sex ten times an hour - or is it a hundred? Yes, of course that's an exaggeration, but it isn't much of one. While some women have a high sexual desire, it's true to say that women in general are much less sexy than men when they're not in the bedroom. Men fantasize all the time - about the things they see, what they'd like to do, how they'd like to do it, and so on. With such an active sexual imagination, it's not hard to understand why a bit of variation in the bedroom routine can keep a man sexually happy.

It doesn't have to be way out stuff like bondage, either. For example, try changing sex positions once in a while: take the initiative and get on top of him or let him enjoy rear entry for a change. Talk dirty to him if you've never tried that before; explore and play with new parts of his body, such as his anus and perineum, during foreplay - or even during the main event. Seduce him into a "quickie" by leaving a trail of clothes across the floor into the bedroom. Greet him at the door in sexy clothing. Phone him at work and tell him what you'd like to do to him later that day.....well, you get the idea - use your imagination!

Expecting him to read your mind

Yes, we know it's difficult to express your sexual desires directly. But men don't think like women. They don't read clues, they don't get hints. So stop communicating indirectly, and tell him what you want. And give him feedback when you get it! That way, he'll know exactly what he's supposed to be doing, how you feel about it, and whether to do it again. For example, if you like what he's doing during sex, let him know with your moans of pleasure.

Criticizing him

I think one of the reasons women can be so critical of their man is that they've never learned the art of direct communication. Than means stating clearly and directly what you want, how you want it, and whether you got it - and how you feel about it afterwards. Men appreciate that style of talk - they know where they stand and it removes the uncertainty for them.

Criticism is an indirect way of saying that your needs are not being met - but if you read number 5 above, then maybe you've begun to understand that your man won't know what you want unless you tell him. If you're judging his love for you on the basis of his ability to anticipate and meet your needs without you saying what they are, well, I'm afraid you aren't likely to be very satisfied. And it won't be his fault.

Letting him take responsibility for your orgasm

A lot of us think that a man somehow has a responsibility to "give" a woman an orgasm during sex. After all, that's how a lot of us were brought up - that a man somehow has to look after "his" woman. And that idea extends to making sure she has an orgasm during sex.....but the truth is that women are responsible for their own orgasms. So while it might be nice for your man to help you get there, if you don't make it to orgasm through his efforts, you can always take matters into your own hands.

Controlling him by withdrawing sex

One of the most unhealthy things you can do in a relationship is to use sex as a weapon. This is basically a statement that you feel powerless, that you think withholding sex is the only way you can get what you want. Rather than trying to exert some influence over your man by denying him the pleasure of your body, try communicating directly what you want and don't want. (That might even extend to simply saying you don't feel emotionally close enough to your partner to want sex.)

Thinking he'll feel the same way about your body that you do

It just isn't so. Men don't attach the judgments to women's bodies that women do. So, for example, even if he thinks your butt really is a bit on the large side, it won't matter to him the way it matters to you. In fact, he probably quite likes it. And he certainly won't be put off making love, or want the lights off, because of it. While you waste time and emotional energy wondering if you're completely undesirable because of some aspect of your body, he'll never give it a second thought. It's women who judge their bodies, I think for the sake of comparison with other women, not men.

Not making up with sex after an argument

Well, yes, I know that a lot of couples do make up with sex when they've had an argument, but in fact many more don't. As I said above, most women think that they need to be feeling loving and emotionally close before they want sex. Yet I've met a lot of couples in my work as a sexual therapist who have found that taking the risk and jumping into bed can work really well as a way of getting close again.

Even if you don't feel sexy or loving when you start making love, after a while the simple act of being physically connected in bed can really change the way you feel about each other. The other way of settling an argument (that's talking, seeking understanding, and thrashing out how you feel) is fine: but once in a while try a more direct method of getting your feelings back on track - just go to bed together!

Monday, June 16, 2008

Sex Foods to Spice Up Your Love Life

Everyone wants a healthy and active sex life, but all too often, we forget that we cannot enjoy lovemaking if we aren't physically fit. A proper diet combined with exercise can affect every aspect of our lives. We are born with one body, and will not get another one. If we expect the one we have to serve us well, we have to take care of it.

One important way of taking care of the body we have is to feed it a balanced diet of nourishing foods, and stay away from those that are detrimental to it.

There's no one right way to eat that will apply to every human body because each one is unique. And, because of illness, stress, pregnancy, exposure to toxins, the quality of the food supply, and many other factors, no single diet is the ideal diet for everyone at every stage in life. Follow the basic guidelines that will help you find the regiment that's right for you.

Pile massive amounts of love foods onto your plate and get the essential sex vitamins and minerals, Vitamin E, C, and A, plus selenium. Foods high in nutrients and low in fats will help you stay healthier and dramatically enhance your sex drive.

Loving tomatoes are a good source of vitamin C, which aids in the formation of hormones that are involved in sexual vitality such as estrogen, and progesterone. Passionate peaches are rich in vitamin A, which is important for sexual health, providing various benefits such as a strong thyroid and the making of the hormone progesterone.

Erotic black beans are high in another sex vitamin that helps you stay energized and feeling sexually vibrant. Steamy hot onions can help stave off heart disease so that you don't need heart disease drugs, which zap a man's libido and sexual performance. Sensual clams can have amatory effects due to their high levels of zinc, which has been shown to help control prostatitis and impotence.

Diet experts say that the exotic banana is rich in potassium, which is essential for the proper functioning of nerves and muscles, the key to successful lovemaking. The magical asparagus is a rich source of potassium, phosphorous and calcium, all of which are essential for energy, and it stimulates the urinary tract and kidneys (sex drive is derived from the kidneys).

Whatever diet you follow, select fresh foods whenever possible. A varied diet also helps avoid getting too much of something that's not good for you. One thing for sure, a prudent and carefully planned diet can be one of the best tactics for a healthier sex life and longevity.

Jimatkan Penggunaan Minyak Kereta

Jimatkan Penggunaan Minyak

Harga minyak sentiasa naik. Malah dalam keadaan sekarang harga minyak tidak mudah untuk diturunkan harga.

Kereta, motor dan kenderaan lain kini merupakan satu keperluan. Perbelanjaan minyak merupakan sebahagian besar dalam belanja harian. Bila harga minyak naik ia akan membebankan pengguna kerana barang-barang keperluan turut naik. Kos pengangkutan barang-barang turut bergantung kepada harga minyak.

Berikut merupakan petua atau nasihat mengenai penjimatan minyak. Sama ada berkesan atau tidak adalah bergantung pada individu. Cara yang terbaik adalah memasang tangki gas NGV dalam kereta anda.

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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Vaginal Discharge

When you have a vaginal yeast infection, you may have one or more of the following symptoms:

• Vaginal itching
• Vaginal discharge that may be thick, white, and lumpy like cottage cheese
• Vaginal soreness, irritation, or burning
• Rash or redness on the skin outside the vagina (vulva)
• Burning on urination
• Painful vaginal intercourse (sex)

Why do women get repeated vaginal yeast infections?
Women may get repeated vaginal yeast infections that may not clear up easily with proper treatment. Listed below are some of the causes of repeated yeast infections:

•hormonal changes occuring a few days before the monthly period
•use of antibiotics
•use of some birth control pills
•pregnancy
•diabetes (“sugar” or “high blood sugar”)
•clothing – wearing tight layers or moist clothing in the genital area
•weakened immune system – some drugs (such as chemotherapy or steroids)
•and medical conditions can weaken the body’s normal ability to fight infection.
One of the most serious of these conditions is infection with the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV – the virus that causes AIDS). Infection with HIV causes the person to be more likely to get infections, including vaginal yeast infections.

How can I prevent repeated vaginal yeast infections?
To lower your chances of getting another yeast infection:

Try to keep the genital area cool and dry. Yeast grow well in warm, moist areas.

The following suggestions may be helpful:

•Wear cotton underwear and loose-fitting clothes.
•Change out of damp clothes or a wet bathing suit as soon as possible.
•If you use minipads when you are not having a menstrual period, change the minipads often.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

What Women Really Want

One Wish, filled with Possibilities towards a Equal Relationship.

Being a female I feel I can speak for our gender when I say that all we really want from our men is to be appreciated and understood. So many times we ask our husbands or significant others to do a few things here and there, but instead of getting that help we find them tuning us out. Why they do that, I don't understand, or perhaps I am in the minority? Another thing is the fact that we are habitually told we are whining, when in actuality we aren't whining at all but simply asking for assistance from them. We would never have to repeat ourselves over and over if they would just listen too us the first time. For these very reasons, getting our partners to really hear us is a serious issue and one with no easy solution.

Men and Women are obviously on two different wavelengths. Even more so, some people in relationships feel men and women are like aliens from two totally different planets. Men misunderstand us all the time, but we can't really blame them. We think that they use the same set of emotional signals that we do so therefore we mistakenly assume they are correctly understanding our points when we look at them a certain way or give the hand. But alas, they do not. A man's mind works totally different from a females, its a known fact. However, we can tune them in too our strongest needs and desires, if we do it the right way.

One small token we want from our men is for them to just pay attention to us. Hold our hands out in public or put their arm around us during a movie. What ever happened to having the door held open for women? There use to be such romance in a relationship but now it seems to have turned to being taken for granted and under appreciated. Why is that? I would hope someone would have the answer for I surely don't. As many times as I have asked my husband to do something, and he has sat and procrastinated about it, rather than just doing it, you would think I would have learned to quit asking by now. But I guess I crave those little things, like any woman does. Men make it so difficult to understand them but on the flip side of the coin, they claim we are too complicated to understand. Can't a relationship just be easy? Well, in reality no relationship is picture perfect and it takes practice. Following the steps outlined might just help in clearing the cobwebs though.

~Take time to really listen to one another without judging

~Never take each other for granted because no tomorrow is promised to anyone

~Make sure that when something is bothering you, you discuss it together and work on a good positive solution. The key here is TOGETHER

~Say I love you. A person would be surprised on how these three little words can change a persons persona quicker than a hot home cooked meal can!

~Share in each other's achievements without trying to best one another

More importantly out of any of these points is to remember to treasure what is shared in a marriage or tightly bound relationship. When you love someone, trusting in them, and having faith in each other is what keeps the communication and tightly intertwined threads of love and joy impassioned. Don't forget that!


Author :
Misty Keith
Professional Writer/Freelancer
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Monday, June 09, 2008

Should You Give Your Girlfriend Lingerie?

Guys, believe me when I tell you that I know how hard it can be to buy the special woman in your life a gift. If it 's too practical, you'll just piss her off. Try buying her a blender for her birthday to see what I mean. Even if you've heard her mention a thousand times that the old one is a piece of junk, this will never be a good move. And God help you if you show up with anything even remotely resembling a vacuum cleaner.

Extravagant and totally unnecessary is always the way to go when buying gifts. But what to get? Diamonds? Whoa, slow that train down! A stuffed animal? Nah, we're not in high school anymore. A kitten? That 's ridiculous on the grounds that this cat will probably hate you. It 's just one of the ironies of life. But if not those, then what?

Now, maybe you have it a little bit easier than I usually do. Maybe your girlfriend has a list of hobbies that you can plan presents around, and you always know exactly what to get her. Maybe she makes it simple for you to get through any gifting occasion. If so, great! You are set! And furthermore, don't let this one get away. But for the rest of us clueless masses out there, here 's an idea - How about some lingerie?

Don't stop reading just yet. I realize that a lot of guys never consider giving lingerie as a gift. I mean, they consider it, but are somewhat, well let 's face it, afraid to. They're afraid of the reaction they'll get because we all know that giving a woman something frilly, and see-thru to wear is as much a gift for the guy giving it as it is for her. While this is most definitely true, as few men will deny the fact that they love to see their significant other wear something sexy; and granting that it can backfire on you horribly; I still say that there is nothing to fear but the prospect of never giving it a try. Well, that or having a vase thrown at you.

But this won't happen if you do things the right way. If you do things the right way, lingerie is a gift she'll be happy to receive. And the first part of doing things the right way is not to hand her a brown paper bag. Package the silky garment of your choice in a tasteful gift box, preferably with some sort of bow around it. Although I said "silky garment" it doesn't have to be. You could go with satin, lace, or whatever you think suits her. The simple rule about material is this - If it 's rough against your skin it'll be just as rough against hers, so get something that you like to touch. The next step is to present this pretty, gift boxed item to the woman of your dreams along with something else that does not scream, "I wanna get some lovin' tonight, Sweetcheeks!" Something along the lines of flowers or chocolates, perhaps. This is a nice touch that she'll appreciate. And hey, if nothing else, at least if you give her some flowers to put in that vase, she can't throw it at you as readily. This is always a good thing, and therefore a win-win.

Another point that I would like to suggest that you consider if you're unsure about whether fine lingerie is really a decent present, is an observation about the difference in the way that men and women treat undergarments. This being in general, of course, and you must understand that you are the one who knows your significant other the best. But it is my opinion that men tend to view undergarments as nothing more than a functional thing that sits between pants and bare skin. I would suggest to you that fine lingerie is far more than just that. Just as much as high heels or make up, fine lingerie is an integral part of every outfit, as it can help to bring out the full potential of whatever she decides to wear, and make her look her absolute best. It pushes up, conceals, and accentuates. It acts as an essential foundation for whatever is put over it.

In light of all this, don't you think that at least an attempt at choosing a nice piece of lingerie for your girlfriend is a worthwhile effort? I certainly do. Try it sometime. It could make your next special occasion even more memorable.

Saturday, June 07, 2008

How To Buy Sexy Lingerie

Buying sexy and exotic lingerie should be treated with a sense of adventure. You should go beyond what is normal for you, something that would excite both you and your partner. Anything sexy and out of the ordinary would be a good place to start. If you are trying to spice up your sex life, be daring and don't be shy.

The idea behind buying and wearing exotic lingerie is the notion that you seek adventure in the bedroom, and want to create fireworks from flames that have died down. Or simply to enter a fantasy world that you wish to explore.

There are many ways to go when shopping for the right outfit. Would you rather start by fulfilling a fantasy that your lover has whispered into your ear, or by surprising him with your own dreams of adventure. If you are afraid to show off your body, the right lingerie will help silhouette and showcase your assets and can distract from the areas that you wish to hide.

Some suggestions I can offer to you:

You can think of it as Halloween, and you are getting dressed up for fun, because it is for fun, and it will be more exciting to think of sexy lingerie as costumes. You are simply playing a role for the evening and can quickly change back to your normal self. But while you are in the costume, you are transported into another world, a fantasy world. Where you can have your most deepest desires. Buying anything from a simple white or black teddy to something sheer, leaving little to the imagination. Or you can wear something with a little flair, with ruffles and lots of lace.

Role-playing can be part of it if you are daring enough. Costumes such as a nurse, or a police officer can always be fun. Create a little story for yourself and for him to be engaged in. Men love to be shocked and seduced. Try to think of something wild that would turn him on. Or better yet, think of something that would turn YOU on. Men love the idea that the woman is excited and that in itself would enhance the experience for them as well. Men are not as difficult as they may seem.

Color is very important. Think of a color you would not normally wear. Maybe you are afraid to wear fire red or hot pink. Think about how your skin tone would look juxtaposed to the color of the lacy lingerie. If you are fair skinned, black lace may frame your figure. Or if you have a tan or darker complexion, a pure white will make your skin look full. Be daring and go for a strong color.

Even if you are playing innocent, take control of the situation and present him with something he can't refuse. It's your chance to put your sexual prowess on display for him to worship. Be confident and wear it feeling proud of your body.

And if you still feel you are not daring enough to wear something shocking and super sexy. Start off by being more subtle, try something not so revealing, just pick something a little different from your everyday under garments. And believe me, he will take notice. But if you feel you have it in you for the adventure, or just to celebrate a special occasion, my advice is to go for it and be as daring as you can think of. But always leave them wanting more.

Seduction is the game, you are only limited by your fantasies, so go play.

Friday, June 06, 2008

Basic Health Rules

Author : Rakhshanda

Health is wealth. It is not only confine to a saying but it is a true fact of life .A healthy body has a healthy mind. Healthy does not mean to fill the body with fats. It means to be active and having the ability to do any kind of physical & mental work.

Our health is under the life style we adopt. Laziness is not a natural phenomena, it occurs when we don,t like to do any kind of work and obtain it. Our health demands some changes e.g

If we pray 5 times in a day, joints of our body work properly. Blood circulation becomes excellent. Offering prayer is the best kind of exercise also. It makes one regular in all his routine. Most of all the passion to obey Allah and meet Him creates such rays of light that are very useful for the health of brain and heart.

Early go to bed and early rise is the best principle for health. Dinner has to be taken before Isha prayer.After Isha prayer do not hesitate to go in to bed. And rise before the Fajr prayer.

Never try to obtain the habit of laziness. Try to do your personal work by yourselves. Take a lot of water to the cleanliness of glands, purifying the blood and discharging waste materials of body. Take a bath daily. Water makes our skin fresh and healthy.

Walk as more as possible. It reduces fats and lose weight. It improves breathing system. Our health .gain enviable praise if we act upon the above given rules (perform prayers regularly , take minimum 8 glass of water daily,and walk as more as you have time).And it becomes a glittering point if we make improve in our sleeping habits.Take a proper and in time sleep for the health of mind and body.

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

How To Define Your Life Values

Have you ever designed your values? I want you to know that this could be one of the most powerful exercises that you could do. I remember the time when I designed my values the way I wanted it, it aligned my goals and propelled me in one singular direction.

When you have designed your values, how do you install them so they become a new pattern of thinking and behaving?

Well there are three steps you must do. The first step is to commit to your new values. This is to make a personal commitment and tell yourself that you will do whatever it takes to follow these values from now on.

The second thing to do is to make a public commitment.

How do you do this? Find five people whom you know. Bring your values to them and tell them that you will live by and commit to these new values. Make sure that these people are people you meet every single day, so that in this way they can hold you to your commitment and make sure you follow through.

The second step also consists of being totally aware of your values every single day, every single moment. So write down your values in your organizer in front of your desk, in front of your mirror or anywhere, where you can see every single day.

The third step, the most important step, is to begin making new decisions and new choices based on these new values. So if success and money was your number one value and health was number ten, it is pretty obvious that when you had to make the choice of going to the gym or staying back in the office to work, you would probably put off the choice of going to the gym. This would definitely result in your health and fitness level staying at mediocre levels.

What if you have shifted health and fitness as your number one value and money is brought down to number two? This shows that you have made a conscious choice to put aside time to go to the gym or go for that run, to increase your level of your health and energy after which you would finish whatever work you have to finish.

Here is another example, if money was the number one value in your life, and family and love was number ten, it is pretty obvious that when it came to a choice between taking your family out versus working on weekends, you would tell your family to wait till your work is completed till you bring them out..

Again if you were to make a conscious choice to put family and love high up in the values list, you would definitely make new choices and new decisions now.

Once you have begun to consciously make these new choices and new decisions repeatedly and consistently, what will happen? After a while, you will form a new pattern of thinking and behaving in which your values have naturally become a part of you.

So do it. Commit to design your values, design your life, creating the life of your highest ideals.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Early Pregnancy Symtoms

Do you think you are pregnant? You won’t know for sure – until you take a pregnancy test. Some women experience symptoms before a missed period! Here are the most common pregnancy symptoms others have experienced.

Fatigue
Many women experience fatigue in early pregnancy. Your body is preparing itself for the new life forming inside you, it’s also producing progesterone and high levels of this hormone may make you sleepy and more tired then usual.

Sore Breasts
Not all women experience sore breasts, but this is another early pregnancy symptom. They may not only feel sore, but fuller and heavier. This can occur as early as two weeks after conception as your breasts begin to prepare themselves to produce milk.

Frequent Urination
Your uterus is enlarging and pressing on your bladder, thus intensifying your urge to run to the restroom more frequently. If you have pain, or are uncomfortable you may have a urinary tract infection, please make an appointment with your doctor.

Constipation
The increase of progesterone causes the digestive tract to slow down, so food passes more slowly through your gastrointestinal tract and therefore causing constipation.

Slight bleeding
Also known as implantation bleeding. This bleeding can occur about 10-14 days after fertilization. Implantation bleeding occurs when the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterus lining. Implantation bleeding can also be mistaken for a light period.

The above symptoms are generally common in early pregnancy – but this does not mean you are pregnant. The only way for you to know for sure is to make an appointment with your physician.

If you suspect you maybe pregnant or you have taken a HPT (Home Pregnancy Test) and it is positive, please make an appointment with your physician.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Erti Kasih Sayang

Erti Kasih Sayang

Pernahkah kita terfikir, kasih sayang yang kita berikan apakah ukuran yang boleh kita bandingkan. Tidak bukan?

Pernahkah kita terfikir, adakah kita sudah berikan kasih sayang yang sama apa yang telah kita terima.

Pernahkah kita terfikir, bahawa kasih sayang adalah tindakan dua pihak, yang memberi juga mahu menjadi penerima.

Apabila sudah sekian lama dikasihi, pernahkah kita terfikir, sudahkah cukup kita memberi apa yang telah diterima.

Harapan seorang yang mengasihi adalah mahu dikasihi kembali.
Harapan seorang yang menyayangi agar sentiasa turut disayangi kembali.
Ciuman kasih sayang perlu ada balasan.
Pelukan perlu ada pengertian.

Jangan biarkan kesedihan, jangan biarkan kesunyian.

Besar ertinya apabila ciuman diberi tanpa diminta.
Besar ertinya ucapan kasih sayang diucapkan bagai lama tidak berjumpa.
Besar ertinya gengaman tangan erat tanpa dilupa.

Sudahkan anda melakukannya pagi ini pada insan yang anda sayang...

Fikirkan sejenak. Insan yang kita sayang, entah esok entah lusa, entah hari ini, boleh pergi buat selamanya ...
Jangan jadi penyesalan ...


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Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Author : Candace Talmadge

True love. Most of us search high and low for true love in that one ideal relationship. We struggle over it and with it, yearn for it, craft books, music, and poems about it—all without a clear understanding of what we seek or why we want it so desperately.

We’re not even sure what love is. How do we define it? The definition of love is as unique and as varied as every individual who experiences it. That’s a big part of the problem. Love feels different for each person. So how do we tell if the one we love actually returns the favor? After all, our loved one may offer us love that does not quite feel like what we know as love.

To clear up at least some of the confusion, let us establish a basic definition for true love. The truest, purest love is unconditional. Such love is also the simplest form of love because it has no hooks, no standards, no expectations, no conditions attached to it whatsoever. No complications, no hidden clauses or agendas, no restraints or exceptions.

Unconditional love is true love, and unconditional love is healing and uplifting—the ultimate source of all life. True/unconditional love sustains and nurtures life, joy, peace, and freedom. That is why we look so hard for true love. Deep in our souls, we long to be free, loved, and secure.

The very simplicity of unconditional/true love is also the source of its power. Lacking all limitations, unconditional love is limitless and endless. Unconditional love is simply another way of saying God, the infinite, the divine, the source, known by many names. Every major religion, in fact, asserts that God is love.

Unconditional love—God in other words—is so simple that most of us find it very suspicious if not downright impossible to understand or accept. We’re certain there has to be a catch somewhere, just as we’re convinced that some people, somehow and in some way, have done something so horrible or unforgiveable that they no longer merit God’s or anyone else’s love.

Do we damn child abusers? What about terrorists who cause death on a mass scale? Do we condemn corporate polluters? Illegal drug users? Homosexuals? Christian fundamentalists? Those of differing faiths or races?

Our personal litany of the unlovable/unforgiveable says far more about the limitations of our love than about anyone else. It also shows us that the love we give and receive is constricted and diminished by judgments, standards, or expectations. Once we impose even one tiny judgment, standard, or expectation on love, it devolves away from being true/unconditional.

Trapped in the painful web of conditional love, we devote our time and energy to looking for love in all the wrong places. We keep hoping to find true love somewhere “out there,” outside of ourselves, in someone else’s eyes. But that is not the place to find true love.

Future columns will explore where and how to find true love and how we can use that unconditional love to heal ourselves and our world.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

The Confidence To Make You A Good Lover

by: John Alanis

Today I want to cover what I call "foundational stuff"... skills everyone knows you should have that are necessary, but are often overlooked in favor of "more advanced" skills. The truth is though, the "advanced skills" are worthless without a firm foundation, and if you're not getting the results you want, it's often because your foundation has eroded.

Everyone knows women "love a confident man", when it comes to good lovers. But, what specifically does "confidence" mean? Few people really know, even though they like to throw the word around. For instance, I appeared on a national radio program Saturday night, and one of the hosts kept saying, "oh you're just talking about being confident." Well, yes and no. See, there are several components to "confidence" and few people know what they really are. So, since I'm such a generous guy, I figured I'd tell you today!

Confidence to me, means a strong self image coupled with "preparedness." Both of these are important, because both can be created formulaically. "Confidence" by itself cannot be created, but once broken down into its components, the components can be created and strung together to create the emotional state known as confidence.

I can't teach you to be confident. But I can sure teach you how to build a strong self image, and how to be prepared.

If you want to know where most guys fall down with women, it's the "preparedness" part. Why? Because it requires time, energy, and effort. It requires you to invest in your education, to take risks and spend money on information, like th information at http://www.byegoodlover.com. It requires you to use and implement this information, and to correct any implementation mistakes. Most guys are not willing to pay this price... much easier to spend their time talking and drinking beer with other guys who are talking and drinking beer.

Preparedness is hard... but when you're prepared you get results. I've seen confident guy after confident guy get shot down in flames by a beautiful woman who was initially attracted to him simply because he wasn't prepared to create a powerful feeling of attraction in her. He said or did something that flipped off the attraction triggers, and off she went with him never knowing why. It's not enough to have a strong self image... you have to be prepared as well. Only when you combine the two will you have true confidence.

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