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Monday, June 30, 2008

Lingerie Seksi Ghairah Suami Perlukah suami minta ?

Lingerie Seksi Ghairah Suami Perlukah suami minta ?

Tulisan daripada laman web Mrs Lingerie untuk dikongsikan bersama.

Artikel lain

http://blog.perempuanmelayu.info/2008/06/should-you-give-your-girlfriend.html

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Sebenarnya saya mendapat banyak mesej dari kaum yang satu lagi tu. Katanya mereka memang minat dan suka nak lihat isteri mereka berpakaian seksi-seksi ni. Apatah lagi dengan jenis-jenis lingerie yang boleh dikelaskan sebagai boleh mengugurkan jantung. Memang mereka suka, tetapi isteri seolah-olah tak faham atau buat-buat tak faham.

Ada yang kata dah bosan dengan cara penampilan isteri yang stereotype aje bila berada di bilik tidur. Sama aje. Kalau nak lihat isteri pakai lingerie seksi, suami kena minta. Itu sebabnya saya buat tajuk "Perlukah suami minta" pada isteri supaya pakai lingerie seksi ?

Perlu ingat ! berhias untuk suami adalah tanggungjawab isteri sepenuhnya. Berhias yang dimaksudkan disini bukan hanya bermakeup lawa, bedak,gincu, perfume sana sini. Memakai seksi juga dikelaskan sebagai berhias. Yang kita faham, berhias yang tu lah. Makeup,bedak, gincu, merah sana merah sini.

Ok Back to topic, "perlukah suami minta" kepada isteri supaya isteri pakai seksi dibilik tidur ?
Dengan tegas saya katakan "tidak". "Suami tak perlu minta", sebaliknya isteri memang perlu tahu. Memang fitrah lelaki, sukakan perempuan seksi. Kalau tak suka, itu bukan lelaki.

Jadi selepas ni, kita ubahlah sedikit fesyen kita semasa di bilik tidur, pelbagaikan,fesyen-fesyen kan. Sekali-sekala cubalah lingerie yang agak "nakal". Bukanlah saya suruh anda jadi nakal, cuma kita nak tambah "spice" dan sedikit kelainan dalam rumahtangga.

Tak perlulah tunggu suami minta. Anda sendiri yang pilih, apa yang sepatutnya anda pakai bila berada "bersamanya". Kalau anda sendiri yang beri, suami akan rasa dihargai, berbeza dengan apabila dia meminta, baru anda beri. Suami ada ego, dia bukan anak kecil yang suka meminta-minta.

Lebih baik anda beri sebelum dia "minta" dari orang lain.

Love

Mrs Lingerie

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Thursday, June 26, 2008

A Woman's Right to Larger Breasts

If you want to enhance your breasts without the costs and risks of surgery, you should know about natural breast enlargement options. There are plenty of horror stories about women w/ surgery gone wrong, breasts pointing in different directions. Natural Breast Enlargement is an all-natural breast augmentation supplement shown safe and effective in gradually enhancing the size and shape of your breasts. Surgery always involves risks, for example infection, bleeding, or implant failure.

Most women prefer the idea of natural breast enlargement pills as opposed to plastic surgery. Studies by groups of researches and scientists have also shown that natural breast enlargement supplements help to maintain female hormonal balance. Modern techniques of breast enhancement are carefully performed to minimize risks but cannot guarantee a perfect result every time. A common misconception about natural breast enhancement is that it will only take weeks or a few months to gain results such as 1-2 cup sizes. This quite simply, is not the case most often since most women who do see success in naturally increasing their breast size do not see considerable results for anywhere from 6-12 months. Also, it is important that the right product is chosen. Some women may respond to one product or method, while other women may not respond at all. Since everyone's body and chemical makeup is so diverse, it is nearly impossible to guarantee one single product will work the same on everyone.

Specific exercises can help tone the muscles around your breasts. Stronger muscles give your breasts better support which in turn gives them a firmer appearance. Press-ups are very good for this. Another great exercise is where you put your hands together as if you are going to pray, making sure your elbows are at 90? angles and you push hard for 10 seconds. Repeat 5 times.

Next time you are down the gym ask an instructor to recommend some exercises for you; and if you can't make the gym then look up 'breast-firming exercises' on Google. You can do these exercises at home - you don't need equipment. You could also do exercises that help improve posture. Standing tall and walking correctly will not only make you look slimmer, but will also make your breasts appear more pert as opposed to looking droopy when you are hunched over.

More information and reviews about breast enhancement can be found here. As well as free breast pills and samples from leading companies.

Author : Lewis Robert
Article Source: http://www.ArticleBiz.com

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Evolution of Sexes

An interesting unsolvable puzzle to the evolutionists to explain is the phenomena of parthenogenesis. The origin of the word are the Greek words "parthenos" (virgin) + "genesis" (generation) what all-together means reproduction of usually female gamete (egg) without pollination or fertilization.


Parthenogenesis

An interesting unsolvable puzzle to the evolutionists to explain is the phenomena of parthenogenesis. The origin of the word are the Greek words "parthenos" (virgin) + "genesis" (generation) what all-together means reproduction of usually female gamete (egg) without pollination or fertilization. Parthenogenesis mostly occurs in lower plants and according to statistics of all plants 80% display some form of asexual reproduction and approximately 50% are mainly or exclusively asexual. Amazingly the offspring is genetically or with other words in all inherited respects identical to the mother plant having e.g. egg with an unreduced chromosome number.

Now, the puzzle in all this is that how did evolution continued at all from this kind of plants if these species cannot reshuffle genes to produce subspecies variations? With other words, how evolution developed without meiosis or the absence of cell division that results in two daughter cells each with half the chromosome number of the parent cell. If this could not somehow happen that means that practically there was no possibility of development of sexes.

Actually, the discussion about how the first fully functional female and the first fully functional male developed to begin the process of reproduction, is not the favorite topic of discussion in the circle of the evolutionists. Graham Bell in his book, The Masterpiece of Nature: The Evolution of Genetics and Sexuality, describes the problem in the following way:

"Sex is the queen of problems in evolutionary biology. Perhaps no other natural phenomenon has aroused so much interest; certainly none has sowed as much confusion. The insights of Darwin and Mendel, which have illuminated so many mysteries, have so far failed to shed more than a dim and wavering light on the central mystery of sexuality, emphasizing its obscurity by its very isolation."

In this regard Dobzhansky and his colleagues made an interesting remark:

"With respect to the origin of sexual reproduction, two challenging questions present themselves. First, in what kinds of organisms did sex first arise? And second, what was the adaptive advantage that caused sexual reproduction to become predominant in higher organisms?"

Now in the following section of this essay we would like to describe briefly the how different evolutionary theories attempt to solve the above-mentioned problems but of course ultimately without any success.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

How To Reach A Stunning Climax

Reaching a stunning climax might seem natural for every sexual being but it does not happen all the time. Many women are frustrated and depressed over sexual dissatisfaction. Many climaxes are characterized by loud fake screams just to raise men's ego. Some do not even care to pretend since their partners do not care whether they enjoy sex or not. To reach a stunning climax as a woman you have to keep communicating with your lover. Tell them what you want done to you. You will have learnt about yourself through masturbation. Once you figure out what gives you stunning climaxes, do not hesitate share it out with your partner. You can trust that he badly wants to know especially if what turns you on is not even close to what he thinks works for you.

To reach a stunning climax, do not give "mercy fakes". This is a term used to refer to the act of faking orgasms. If you let your partner think that he is hitting it when he is falling short, you are being unfair to yourself. He won't do anything different since in his mind you are having great climaxes. This leaves you faking it for the rest of your life. How can you reach a stunning climax without spanking your partner's ego? Use your sexy voice and say it out in soft sultry directions. Say something like, "I go wild when you squeeze my breasts" or you can silently take his hand's fingers, manhood or tongue and take them for a a tour in your erogenous zones.

To reach a stunning climax do not be shy to give yourself a hand. It is a fact that only 30% of women reach climax through penetration. You are not abnormal so give yourself a hand as he penetrates through. Reach down for your clitoris and service it squarely. Do not let him hurry foreplay. Guys can go from zero arousal to orgasm in five minutes. Women take longer to get aroused the reason as to why foreplay was invented. Let your husband put the kids to bed as you refresh yourself with a shower. This will keep you in a position to respond better to foreplay. You might not be in the moods but touching the right button makes your skin glow with want.

Do you know why you should climax often especially when you are in pain? Here is the answer. Climaxes trigger production of endorphins. They are even better than ibuprofen since they make the brain to relax and feel good. They curb the pain using the most natural way and encourage good moods. They kill pain in headaches, menstrual cramps and much more. Hormones will not cause any stomach upsets and introduce any toxic substances to the liver. Exercise is in the core of every healthy life including sex life. Exercise helps in circulation of blood in all of your body organs including your sex organ. This helps you to reach a stunning climax. The better the flow of blood the better the feeling or the titillation. Remember to strengthen your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle it is the muscle behind powerful orgasms. To test their strength, stop the flow while urinating. The muscle that flexes is what needs to be exercised.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Ten Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex With A Man

Author : Rod Phillips

You see a lot of articles about what men can do during sex to make it better for the woman, but there's a lot less information - and opinion - on the mistakes women make. So, to set the record straight, here's our list of ten things for women to avoid.

Expecting him to think like a woman

We've all seen loads of books with titles like "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" which highlight an unfortunate difference between the sexes. Men and women don't think the same way - and while we're not going to get into why this happens, it's important to remember that fact when you're in a relationship. In general, men are not as romantic as women, they don't see romance as a necessary prelude to sex, and they can divorce sex from their feelings in a way that perhaps most women can't. So there will be plenty of times when a man wants sex even if he isn't feeling romantic and connected to his partner.

For him, the physical pleasure of sex is a reward in itself. He doesn't need to be seduced into feeling desire (though he may appreciate it if you do seduce him!), at least most of the time, for his sex drive is a pretty constant part of his maleness. I think that's what women don't understand.

They know how elusive and emotional their own sex drive is, but they don't appreciate how different it is for a man. Think of it this way: men can enjoy sex with their partner whether they are feeling loving or not; in fact they often find their feelings of love for their partner when they have sex with her. By contrast, women often say they need to feel loving before they want sex - or at least before they are prepared to give themselves heart and soul to a man.

Not showing your sexual energy

Women who were brought up to be demure "good girls" (i.e. non-sexual) may find it difficult to express the essence of their feminine energy during sex. And a lot of women also have problems expressing their anger, an emotion which can add real spice to the sexual union between men and women. This lack of sexual energy might appear as a reluctance to initiate sex, a reluctance to be the active partner, a reluctance to make noises or thrust, or simply an overall tendency to wait for the man to lead and direct what happens during sex.

But believe me, ladies, your man will really like it when you express your passion - whether that means you getting on top for woman on top sex, moving in a way that will give you the greatest pleasure, kissing him passionately, or being assertive about what you want in bed.

Being too gentle when you touch his penis

Men like a firmer touch than women, especially when it comes to their penises. If you ever have the pleasure of watching him masturbate, you'll see how much pressure he uses on his penis - especially as he nears orgasm. If you're doing it for him, ask him to tell you what you're doing right and what he'd like done differently. He'll really appreciate your efforts to give him more pleasure.

Not experimenting with sex

The saying has it that men think about sex ten times an hour - or is it a hundred? Yes, of course that's an exaggeration, but it isn't much of one. While some women have a high sexual desire, it's true to say that women in general are much less sexy than men when they're not in the bedroom. Men fantasize all the time - about the things they see, what they'd like to do, how they'd like to do it, and so on. With such an active sexual imagination, it's not hard to understand why a bit of variation in the bedroom routine can keep a man sexually happy.

It doesn't have to be way out stuff like bondage, either. For example, try changing sex positions once in a while: take the initiative and get on top of him or let him enjoy rear entry for a change. Talk dirty to him if you've never tried that before; explore and play with new parts of his body, such as his anus and perineum, during foreplay - or even during the main event. Seduce him into a "quickie" by leaving a trail of clothes across the floor into the bedroom. Greet him at the door in sexy clothing. Phone him at work and tell him what you'd like to do to him later that day.....well, you get the idea - use your imagination!

Expecting him to read your mind

Yes, we know it's difficult to express your sexual desires directly. But men don't think like women. They don't read clues, they don't get hints. So stop communicating indirectly, and tell him what you want. And give him feedback when you get it! That way, he'll know exactly what he's supposed to be doing, how you feel about it, and whether to do it again. For example, if you like what he's doing during sex, let him know with your moans of pleasure.

Criticizing him

I think one of the reasons women can be so critical of their man is that they've never learned the art of direct communication. Than means stating clearly and directly what you want, how you want it, and whether you got it - and how you feel about it afterwards. Men appreciate that style of talk - they know where they stand and it removes the uncertainty for them.

Criticism is an indirect way of saying that your needs are not being met - but if you read number 5 above, then maybe you've begun to understand that your man won't know what you want unless you tell him. If you're judging his love for you on the basis of his ability to anticipate and meet your needs without you saying what they are, well, I'm afraid you aren't likely to be very satisfied. And it won't be his fault.

Letting him take responsibility for your orgasm

A lot of us think that a man somehow has a responsibility to "give" a woman an orgasm during sex. After all, that's how a lot of us were brought up - that a man somehow has to look after "his" woman. And that idea extends to making sure she has an orgasm during sex.....but the truth is that women are responsible for their own orgasms. So while it might be nice for your man to help you get there, if you don't make it to orgasm through his efforts, you can always take matters into your own hands.

Controlling him by withdrawing sex

One of the most unhealthy things you can do in a relationship is to use sex as a weapon. This is basically a statement that you feel powerless, that you think withholding sex is the only way you can get what you want. Rather than trying to exert some influence over your man by denying him the pleasure of your body, try communicating directly what you want and don't want. (That might even extend to simply saying you don't feel emotionally close enough to your partner to want sex.)

Thinking he'll feel the same way about your body that you do

It just isn't so. Men don't attach the judgments to women's bodies that women do. So, for example, even if he thinks your butt really is a bit on the large side, it won't matter to him the way it matters to you. In fact, he probably quite likes it. And he certainly won't be put off making love, or want the lights off, because of it. While you waste time and emotional energy wondering if you're completely undesirable because of some aspect of your body, he'll never give it a second thought. It's women who judge their bodies, I think for the sake of comparison with other women, not men.

Not making up with sex after an argument

Well, yes, I know that a lot of couples do make up with sex when they've had an argument, but in fact many more don't. As I said above, most women think that they need to be feeling loving and emotionally close before they want sex. Yet I've met a lot of couples in my work as a sexual therapist who have found that taking the risk and jumping into bed can work really well as a way of getting close again.

Even if you don't feel sexy or loving when you start making love, after a while the simple act of being physically connected in bed can really change the way you feel about each other. The other way of settling an argument (that's talking, seeking understanding, and thrashing out how you feel) is fine: but once in a while try a more direct method of getting your feelings back on track - just go to bed together!

Monday, June 16, 2008

Sex Foods to Spice Up Your Love Life

Everyone wants a healthy and active sex life, but all too often, we forget that we cannot enjoy lovemaking if we aren't physically fit. A proper diet combined with exercise can affect every aspect of our lives. We are born with one body, and will not get another one. If we expect the one we have to serve us well, we have to take care of it.

One important way of taking care of the body we have is to feed it a balanced diet of nourishing foods, and stay away from those that are detrimental to it.

There's no one right way to eat that will apply to every human body because each one is unique. And, because of illness, stress, pregnancy, exposure to toxins, the quality of the food supply, and many other factors, no single diet is the ideal diet for everyone at every stage in life. Follow the basic guidelines that will help you find the regiment that's right for you.

Pile massive amounts of love foods onto your plate and get the essential sex vitamins and minerals, Vitamin E, C, and A, plus selenium. Foods high in nutrients and low in fats will help you stay healthier and dramatically enhance your sex drive.

Loving tomatoes are a good source of vitamin C, which aids in the formation of hormones that are involved in sexual vitality such as estrogen, and progesterone. Passionate peaches are rich in vitamin A, which is important for sexual health, providing various benefits such as a strong thyroid and the making of the hormone progesterone.

Erotic black beans are high in another sex vitamin that helps you stay energized and feeling sexually vibrant. Steamy hot onions can help stave off heart disease so that you don't need heart disease drugs, which zap a man's libido and sexual performance. Sensual clams can have amatory effects due to their high levels of zinc, which has been shown to help control prostatitis and impotence.

Diet experts say that the exotic banana is rich in potassium, which is essential for the proper functioning of nerves and muscles, the key to successful lovemaking. The magical asparagus is a rich source of potassium, phosphorous and calcium, all of which are essential for energy, and it stimulates the urinary tract and kidneys (sex drive is derived from the kidneys).

Whatever diet you follow, select fresh foods whenever possible. A varied diet also helps avoid getting too much of something that's not good for you. One thing for sure, a prudent and carefully planned diet can be one of the best tactics for a healthier sex life and longevity.

Jimatkan Penggunaan Minyak Kereta

Jimatkan Penggunaan Minyak

Harga minyak sentiasa naik. Malah dalam keadaan sekarang harga minyak tidak mudah untuk diturunkan harga.

Kereta, motor dan kenderaan lain kini merupakan satu keperluan. Perbelanjaan minyak merupakan sebahagian besar dalam belanja harian. Bila harga minyak naik ia akan membebankan pengguna kerana barang-barang keperluan turut naik. Kos pengangkutan barang-barang turut bergantung kepada harga minyak.

Berikut merupakan petua atau nasihat mengenai penjimatan minyak. Sama ada berkesan atau tidak adalah bergantung pada individu. Cara yang terbaik adalah memasang tangki gas NGV dalam kereta anda.

Lanjutan di Internet
http://www.noorjannah.com/2008/06/jimatkan-penggunaan-minyak.html

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Vaginal Discharge

When you have a vaginal yeast infection, you may have one or more of the following symptoms:

• Vaginal itching
• Vaginal discharge that may be thick, white, and lumpy like cottage cheese
• Vaginal soreness, irritation, or burning
• Rash or redness on the skin outside the vagina (vulva)
• Burning on urination
• Painful vaginal intercourse (sex)

Why do women get repeated vaginal yeast infections?
Women may get repeated vaginal yeast infections that may not clear up easily with proper treatment. Listed below are some of the causes of repeated yeast infections:

•hormonal changes occuring a few days before the monthly period
•use of antibiotics
•use of some birth control pills
•pregnancy
•diabetes (“sugar” or “high blood sugar”)
•clothing – wearing tight layers or moist clothing in the genital area
•weakened immune system – some drugs (such as chemotherapy or steroids)
•and medical conditions can weaken the body’s normal ability to fight infection.
One of the most serious of these conditions is infection with the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV – the virus that causes AIDS). Infection with HIV causes the person to be more likely to get infections, including vaginal yeast infections.

How can I prevent repeated vaginal yeast infections?
To lower your chances of getting another yeast infection:

Try to keep the genital area cool and dry. Yeast grow well in warm, moist areas.

The following suggestions may be helpful:

•Wear cotton underwear and loose-fitting clothes.
•Change out of damp clothes or a wet bathing suit as soon as possible.
•If you use minipads when you are not having a menstrual period, change the minipads often.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

What Women Really Want

One Wish, filled with Possibilities towards a Equal Relationship.

Being a female I feel I can speak for our gender when I say that all we really want from our men is to be appreciated and understood. So many times we ask our husbands or significant others to do a few things here and there, but instead of getting that help we find them tuning us out. Why they do that, I don't understand, or perhaps I am in the minority? Another thing is the fact that we are habitually told we are whining, when in actuality we aren't whining at all but simply asking for assistance from them. We would never have to repeat ourselves over and over if they would just listen too us the first time. For these very reasons, getting our partners to really hear us is a serious issue and one with no easy solution.

Men and Women are obviously on two different wavelengths. Even more so, some people in relationships feel men and women are like aliens from two totally different planets. Men misunderstand us all the time, but we can't really blame them. We think that they use the same set of emotional signals that we do so therefore we mistakenly assume they are correctly understanding our points when we look at them a certain way or give the hand. But alas, they do not. A man's mind works totally different from a females, its a known fact. However, we can tune them in too our strongest needs and desires, if we do it the right way.

One small token we want from our men is for them to just pay attention to us. Hold our hands out in public or put their arm around us during a movie. What ever happened to having the door held open for women? There use to be such romance in a relationship but now it seems to have turned to being taken for granted and under appreciated. Why is that? I would hope someone would have the answer for I surely don't. As many times as I have asked my husband to do something, and he has sat and procrastinated about it, rather than just doing it, you would think I would have learned to quit asking by now. But I guess I crave those little things, like any woman does. Men make it so difficult to understand them but on the flip side of the coin, they claim we are too complicated to understand. Can't a relationship just be easy? Well, in reality no relationship is picture perfect and it takes practice. Following the steps outlined might just help in clearing the cobwebs though.

~Take time to really listen to one another without judging

~Never take each other for granted because no tomorrow is promised to anyone

~Make sure that when something is bothering you, you discuss it together and work on a good positive solution. The key here is TOGETHER

~Say I love you. A person would be surprised on how these three little words can change a persons persona quicker than a hot home cooked meal can!

~Share in each other's achievements without trying to best one another

More importantly out of any of these points is to remember to treasure what is shared in a marriage or tightly bound relationship. When you love someone, trusting in them, and having faith in each other is what keeps the communication and tightly intertwined threads of love and joy impassioned. Don't forget that!


Author :
Misty Keith
Professional Writer/Freelancer
[email protected]

Monday, June 09, 2008

Should You Give Your Girlfriend Lingerie?

Guys, believe me when I tell you that I know how hard it can be to buy the special woman in your life a gift. If it 's too practical, you'll just piss her off. Try buying her a blender for her birthday to see what I mean. Even if you've heard her mention a thousand times that the old one is a piece of junk, this will never be a good move. And God help you if you show up with anything even remotely resembling a vacuum cleaner.

Extravagant and totally unnecessary is always the way to go when buying gifts. But what to get? Diamonds? Whoa, slow that train down! A stuffed animal? Nah, we're not in high school anymore. A kitten? That 's ridiculous on the grounds that this cat will probably hate you. It 's just one of the ironies of life. But if not those, then what?

Now, maybe you have it a little bit easier than I usually do. Maybe your girlfriend has a list of hobbies that you can plan presents around, and you always know exactly what to get her. Maybe she makes it simple for you to get through any gifting occasion. If so, great! You are set! And furthermore, don't let this one get away. But for the rest of us clueless masses out there, here 's an idea - How about some lingerie?

Don't stop reading just yet. I realize that a lot of guys never consider giving lingerie as a gift. I mean, they consider it, but are somewhat, well let 's face it, afraid to. They're afraid of the reaction they'll get because we all know that giving a woman something frilly, and see-thru to wear is as much a gift for the guy giving it as it is for her. While this is most definitely true, as few men will deny the fact that they love to see their significant other wear something sexy; and granting that it can backfire on you horribly; I still say that there is nothing to fear but the prospect of never giving it a try. Well, that or having a vase thrown at you.

But this won't happen if you do things the right way. If you do things the right way, lingerie is a gift she'll be happy to receive. And the first part of doing things the right way is not to hand her a brown paper bag. Package the silky garment of your choice in a tasteful gift box, preferably with some sort of bow around it. Although I said "silky garment" it doesn't have to be. You could go with satin, lace, or whatever you think suits her. The simple rule about material is this - If it 's rough against your skin it'll be just as rough against hers, so get something that you like to touch. The next step is to present this pretty, gift boxed item to the woman of your dreams along with something else that does not scream, "I wanna get some lovin' tonight, Sweetcheeks!" Something along the lines of flowers or chocolates, perhaps. This is a nice touch that she'll appreciate. And hey, if nothing else, at least if you give her some flowers to put in that vase, she can't throw it at you as readily. This is always a good thing, and therefore a win-win.

Another point that I would like to suggest that you consider if you're unsure about whether fine lingerie is really a decent present, is an observation about the difference in the way that men and women treat undergarments. This being in general, of course, and you must understand that you are the one who knows your significant other the best. But it is my opinion that men tend to view undergarments as nothing more than a functional thing that sits between pants and bare skin. I would suggest to you that fine lingerie is far more than just that. Just as much as high heels or make up, fine lingerie is an integral part of every outfit, as it can help to bring out the full potential of whatever she decides to wear, and make her look her absolute best. It pushes up, conceals, and accentuates. It acts as an essential foundation for whatever is put over it.

In light of all this, don't you think that at least an attempt at choosing a nice piece of lingerie for your girlfriend is a worthwhile effort? I certainly do. Try it sometime. It could make your next special occasion even more memorable.

Saturday, June 07, 2008

How To Buy Sexy Lingerie

Buying sexy and exotic lingerie should be treated with a sense of adventure. You should go beyond what is normal for you, something that would excite both you and your partner. Anything sexy and out of the ordinary would be a good place to start. If you are trying to spice up your sex life, be daring and don't be shy.

The idea behind buying and wearing exotic lingerie is the notion that you seek adventure in the bedroom, and want to create fireworks from flames that have died down. Or simply to enter a fantasy world that you wish to explore.

There are many ways to go when shopping for the right outfit. Would you rather start by fulfilling a fantasy that your lover has whispered into your ear, or by surprising him with your own dreams of adventure. If you are afraid to show off your body, the right lingerie will help silhouette and showcase your assets and can distract from the areas that you wish to hide.

Some suggestions I can offer to you:

You can think of it as Halloween, and you are getting dressed up for fun, because it is for fun, and it will be more exciting to think of sexy lingerie as costumes. You are simply playing a role for the evening and can quickly change back to your normal self. But while you are in the costume, you are transported into another world, a fantasy world. Where you can have your most deepest desires. Buying anything from a simple white or black teddy to something sheer, leaving little to the imagination. Or you can wear something with a little flair, with ruffles and lots of lace.

Role-playing can be part of it if you are daring enough. Costumes such as a nurse, or a police officer can always be fun. Create a little story for yourself and for him to be engaged in. Men love to be shocked and seduced. Try to think of something wild that would turn him on. Or better yet, think of something that would turn YOU on. Men love the idea that the woman is excited and that in itself would enhance the experience for them as well. Men are not as difficult as they may seem.

Color is very important. Think of a color you would not normally wear. Maybe you are afraid to wear fire red or hot pink. Think about how your skin tone would look juxtaposed to the color of the lacy lingerie. If you are fair skinned, black lace may frame your figure. Or if you have a tan or darker complexion, a pure white will make your skin look full. Be daring and go for a strong color.

Even if you are playing innocent, take control of the situation and present him with something he can't refuse. It's your chance to put your sexual prowess on display for him to worship. Be confident and wear it feeling proud of your body.

And if you still feel you are not daring enough to wear something shocking and super sexy. Start off by being more subtle, try something not so revealing, just pick something a little different from your everyday under garments. And believe me, he will take notice. But if you feel you have it in you for the adventure, or just to celebrate a special occasion, my advice is to go for it and be as daring as you can think of. But always leave them wanting more.

Seduction is the game, you are only limited by your fantasies, so go play.

Friday, June 06, 2008

Basic Health Rules

Author : Rakhshanda

Health is wealth. It is not only confine to a saying but it is a true fact of life .A healthy body has a healthy mind. Healthy does not mean to fill the body with fats. It means to be active and having the ability to do any kind of physical & mental work.

Our health is under the life style we adopt. Laziness is not a natural phenomena, it occurs when we don,t like to do any kind of work and obtain it. Our health demands some changes e.g

If we pray 5 times in a day, joints of our body work properly. Blood circulation becomes excellent. Offering prayer is the best kind of exercise also. It makes one regular in all his routine. Most of all the passion to obey Allah and meet Him creates such rays of light that are very useful for the health of brain and heart.

Early go to bed and early rise is the best principle for health. Dinner has to be taken before Isha prayer.After Isha prayer do not hesitate to go in to bed. And rise before the Fajr prayer.

Never try to obtain the habit of laziness. Try to do your personal work by yourselves. Take a lot of water to the cleanliness of glands, purifying the blood and discharging waste materials of body. Take a bath daily. Water makes our skin fresh and healthy.

Walk as more as possible. It reduces fats and lose weight. It improves breathing system. Our health .gain enviable praise if we act upon the above given rules (perform prayers regularly , take minimum 8 glass of water daily,and walk as more as you have time).And it becomes a glittering point if we make improve in our sleeping habits.Take a proper and in time sleep for the health of mind and body.

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

How To Define Your Life Values

Have you ever designed your values? I want you to know that this could be one of the most powerful exercises that you could do. I remember the time when I designed my values the way I wanted it, it aligned my goals and propelled me in one singular direction.

When you have designed your values, how do you install them so they become a new pattern of thinking and behaving?

Well there are three steps you must do. The first step is to commit to your new values. This is to make a personal commitment and tell yourself that you will do whatever it takes to follow these values from now on.

The second thing to do is to make a public commitment.

How do you do this? Find five people whom you know. Bring your values to them and tell them that you will live by and commit to these new values. Make sure that these people are people you meet every single day, so that in this way they can hold you to your commitment and make sure you follow through.

The second step also consists of being totally aware of your values every single day, every single moment. So write down your values in your organizer in front of your desk, in front of your mirror or anywhere, where you can see every single day.

The third step, the most important step, is to begin making new decisions and new choices based on these new values. So if success and money was your number one value and health was number ten, it is pretty obvious that when you had to make the choice of going to the gym or staying back in the office to work, you would probably put off the choice of going to the gym. This would definitely result in your health and fitness level staying at mediocre levels.

What if you have shifted health and fitness as your number one value and money is brought down to number two? This shows that you have made a conscious choice to put aside time to go to the gym or go for that run, to increase your level of your health and energy after which you would finish whatever work you have to finish.

Here is another example, if money was the number one value in your life, and family and love was number ten, it is pretty obvious that when it came to a choice between taking your family out versus working on weekends, you would tell your family to wait till your work is completed till you bring them out..

Again if you were to make a conscious choice to put family and love high up in the values list, you would definitely make new choices and new decisions now.

Once you have begun to consciously make these new choices and new decisions repeatedly and consistently, what will happen? After a while, you will form a new pattern of thinking and behaving in which your values have naturally become a part of you.

So do it. Commit to design your values, design your life, creating the life of your highest ideals.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Early Pregnancy Symtoms

Do you think you are pregnant? You won’t know for sure – until you take a pregnancy test. Some women experience symptoms before a missed period! Here are the most common pregnancy symptoms others have experienced.

Fatigue
Many women experience fatigue in early pregnancy. Your body is preparing itself for the new life forming inside you, it’s also producing progesterone and high levels of this hormone may make you sleepy and more tired then usual.

Sore Breasts
Not all women experience sore breasts, but this is another early pregnancy symptom. They may not only feel sore, but fuller and heavier. This can occur as early as two weeks after conception as your breasts begin to prepare themselves to produce milk.

Frequent Urination
Your uterus is enlarging and pressing on your bladder, thus intensifying your urge to run to the restroom more frequently. If you have pain, or are uncomfortable you may have a urinary tract infection, please make an appointment with your doctor.

Constipation
The increase of progesterone causes the digestive tract to slow down, so food passes more slowly through your gastrointestinal tract and therefore causing constipation.

Slight bleeding
Also known as implantation bleeding. This bleeding can occur about 10-14 days after fertilization. Implantation bleeding occurs when the fertilized egg attaches itself to the uterus lining. Implantation bleeding can also be mistaken for a light period.

The above symptoms are generally common in early pregnancy – but this does not mean you are pregnant. The only way for you to know for sure is to make an appointment with your physician.

If you suspect you maybe pregnant or you have taken a HPT (Home Pregnancy Test) and it is positive, please make an appointment with your physician.

Jom Berkawan